Only 6 days and you reached a point of telling someone to feck off?
You wrote "Do you ever get used to the dirt" what does this mean? It sounds like you may be miserable living here. Is the convenience of short hops to Perth your main reason for choosing Bali? if so, you may be disappointed. Bali has become increasingly expensive by leaps and bounds and more tourists are forecast to arrive in 2024 so plan on doubling your budget if arriving next year. Long term rental prices are skyrocketing around South Bali too. Healthcare on Bali is horrible even with a good private insurance company.
I recently spent a week in Darwin, Australia and found prices there within the range of Bali for short term rentals and food. There's less dirt there, wine is cheaper for sure, and there are frequent domestic flights to Perth.
Maybe cast your net a little wider?