This may sound a stupid question but I really am in the dark, could this gentleman
who owns the land and will be our neighbour be the local banjar...??
Sorry Lea,but the best advice after this question is PUT EVEYTHING ON HOLD.Obviously you have not yet any clue as to how things work in Bali.
The Banjar is the local neighbourhood organisation.They are very powerful and can levy any taxes on you they think fit.
I agree with former posters that 17 years is too short a lease for rebuilding.At least make sure the extension is 100% sure before signing anything.
Did you know you need the signatures from all your neighbours to obtain a new IMB?Do you see the minefield there,and the possibilities for extortion?Is Ray White working for the seller of the lease?Do you think they will give you all relevant information that might interfere with you signing?
If you would prefer to live in Sanur,why go on with this?Because it is affordable?Then ask yourself WHY it is affordable in this still highstrung market.
If you persist,go and talk to everyone in the neighbourhood who leases from the same man,and i mean Everyone.And go and speak to the head of the Banjar as well.
Methinks that if you just wait and keep looking,and start to have a local group of balinese who look out for a property in Sanur for you,that has not all these footangels,you might live a much happier life in Bali.
Good luck and much wisdom!
PS,i did all the things that i advocate here wrong myself when i bought my house,blinded as i was by the opportunity,but most things worked out well as i live in a fantastic village.But there is nothing you should be ashamed of,i can fairly safe say most of us have made mistakes like that.