Nice to see you come back again Gilbert!!!
Hahaha so finally you found JODOH in Bali yap!!! what a nice news!!!! is she balinese? sorry sorry, hahaha I am just curious if you are going to have a balinese ceremony!!!
Congratulation Gilbert!!
thanks begonia...yep it's been quite a while. and yeah I found the one, or did she find me?hahaha, just joking.
she's actually from Java, i couldn't handle those balinese 'dating-rules' anymore....meeting the (whole) family before actually going on a simple date..but as for ceremony's, her family is muslim (she not really, only her ID says so) so for the inlaws a ceremony following their rules/ways, then her dream is to get married in a church with ofcourse the white wedding gaun and flowers etcetc... and then ofcourse for the people in the desa we are living, we will be having a ceremony as well. so talk about a multi-national and multi-religion wedding,hahaha.
before people jump in and say,that's impossible because that's not allowed in Indonesia....I know by law it's not allowed to be wed when from different religion, but thats only if you register. we are only going to register the church-wedding, so officially she's changing religion...(makes some visa application also run smoother, no red-flags).
but for all ceremonies we need different papers, and just starting to get things in order. But can't wait till I can say
"I DO", hehehe.
thanks for your interest and I will be posting again.
friendly greetings (from stormy north bali), gilbert.