The general expectation of Balinese here : if the husband come home from the overseas and have a "bule" wife, they will come in and support the big family financially not the other way around
I think this is so true.
If they met in Bali, and she took him to the USA, the extended family will assume she is bule kaya, and the husband will lose face if he (meaning his wife) cannot provide financial assistance to the rest of the family
My wife is Indonesian and she has her own business. People often ask her why she works since she is married to a foreigner. Fortunately I have never been asked to provide financial assistance for her family.
This is not just about foreigner/Balinese relationships, but I have some Balinese friends who have had success in their business and now they have personal problems of their own by getting involved with the wrong people, lending money out - money that was their client's money and then not getting it back.