I was beat up for many years from a partner. In Australia I got in with the wrong crowd, I was young & moved in with a guy whom I adored & would have done anything for & did some stupid stuff for at the same time...
He was a liar, a cheat, a dealer, a user & extremely violent to me.
I was very young when we began dating & soon I moved in with him & was under his spell. He was a very powerful person & extremely sexual & romantic, but then could become a maniac at the drop of a hat!
One night I was permitted out with a friend as he was going to be out & I was to be home at a cert6ain time, we called him to collect us, but he was passed out somewhere, so i caught a cab back to a friends early hours of the morning he called my mobile & said he was gonna kill me! I decided then that all the love I had for him was never gonna make him love/like me back... So after approx 6-7 years maybe more, I left him with the clothes on my back & nothing else!
I have to say that this was the most exhilirating & terrifying feeling in the world! I was alone, yet I was free!
I had to go into hiding for a very long time, he found me on occasions & tried to strangle & kill me, but never succeeded. Eventually I saved enough to go on a holiday I was just 22, I went to bali & fell in love!
I do not have any feeling for this guy whom is is still in my life in a way as his brother married one of my good friends & I have other friends that are in the same circle. I don't hate him, I have nothing, not a feeling at all to explain him!?
He stole & ruined the best part of my life, but if I had never met him would I be where am I now? I have Gede whom is the most gorgeous, gentle, caring, king person I could ever, ever meet, I have a daughter that I adore & we together are all happy!? Immensely happy!
I try not to harbour hurt, anger etc, as I love to totally that it seems to take over rather than pain...
I hope you both can get over these things & learn to love & live & simply enjoy life.
We are only here for a small time, I don't wanna be sad or down for the life I havbe I wanna celebrate & enjoy the life I have!!!!