Yep, your right mimpimanis.
My post wasn't meant especially for your situation, and I do understand what you mean.
I am no specialist in Indonesian Law, so I can't and won't give you any legal advice...I can only say how I would try to set things up if I were you...and maybe I am repeating what Kabim already wrote, but in simpler terms maybe
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If Made dies before you do, he can state in his will that everything goes to your son and you as his parent will act as his legal guardian till he reaches the age that he is allowed to make his own decisions and sign legal papers(licenses, taxes, etcetc..). I think this is possible in Indonesia, and I don't see any risks or possible problems...
Another option is if I understood right, "sell" the place within a year...again I think, this can be on paper only..I mean for example, "sell" the place to your brother-in-law, who then signs all the rights over to you..
Sorry if I am repeating previous posts from members...but hell I got confused with all the Hak's flying around :lol: :lol:
Anyways Mimpimanis....let's just hope Made is around for a long time, so you both together can raise your son.
Friendly greetings.....Gilbert.