Hello. I guess I'm one of those pathetic middle aged guys who can't find a woman in the states. Bare with me, I'll try to keep this short. I'm 44, 5'10, average looking I guess, decent shape, and financially secure, but I was super shy as a young adult and started my dating life about 10 years after most other guys. Well, When most guys dated in their 20s and married in their 30s I only started dating in my late 20s (28ish) with a huge chunk of time taken out of my 30s during a long term relationship that didn't work out (34-39). My problem: If I had a kid already I wouldn't mind marrying a woman my age but I don't want any child of mine to be without a parent by the time he or she turns 30 or 35. Therefore I'm looking for a woman up to age 32, so that my child could have at least one parent at a suitable age. This age gap is too much for women in the USA and most in the western world. So my question. If I come to Bali, where would I go to meet down to earth women? I don't think I should be going to clubs, it's not really my style, I'm more a quiet type. I don't want to waste my time walking around sitting a bars or cafes, and I have no idea where to start. Can someone here please help? HOW and WHERE do I meet single women in Bali who are not party girls?