Dear Bapak Jimbo
I feel obliged to comment upon your postings as my name was mentioned therein. What I am about to write is strictly based on my own personal experience/observation.
Jimbo said:
My main reason for returning to the UK was for the education system. Like Ni Luh and Newcastle…………. they are here because they believe they get a better education as do I.
I did not come to UK for better education. I was already enrolled in a very good university in the US (Bloomington). My parents asked me whether I would like to join them in England, which I accepted. I wanted to have European experience and that was the perfect opportunity for me.
I do believe UK Universities are really good but I must say American “corporate” Universities have more facilities and money for research etc with “corporate pockets”. I was surprised that UK education was very highly looked upon by other countries (EU, commonwealth countries, Russia, China etc). Dare I say they would rather have a UK education than a US one.
I appreciate the UK education system but the best thing being student in the UK is meeting a lot of people from different countries. We cooked (well them
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), studied and laughed together and after that we would go clubbing, not so much for a drink but dancing at the student union. We studied and partied hard. Through my short time as a student I have been fascinated by different cultures and people that I come across. I am still in contact with many of my friends from Uni. Some of them have been to Bali with me and I look forward to accepting their invitations to visit their countries, in due course. My parents were also in the same city but they have given me the freedom to choose between living in their flat or my own accommodation.
Jimbo said:
My final word on education is that if it is so good why do so many try to get it out of Indonesia?
Yes I have indeed had western education but this has nothing to do with the standard of Indonesian education. I should like to explain my reasoning going abroad.
My parents always let me make most of my decisions and they have always been supportive with whatever decision I made. I could be whatever I wanted to be and I am not necessary required to go to university if I that was the path I wanted to take. My dad always wanted to be in Military and my mom always wanted to be a professional piano player but their families required them to pursue the university route. They went to University in Indonesia. Not that they regretted their present career but they have come to appreciate not to put too much pressure on my little brother and I.
Why did I get out of Indonesia: at that time my dad was active in the Rotary Club and mentioned about a student exchange program. I was taking interests on the subject, and just jokingly asked my parents whether I can continue my schooling in USA. I could get to meet a real cowboy :lol:. To my surprise my parents actually said yes. I guess they trusted me enough and always knew that deep down I was a curious cat at heart. Every time I had holiday breaks I always planned my trips to see different places, I loved travelling alone and somehow I was not afraid of dangers.
My brother on the other hand is quite a different personality to me: more reserved and less interested in experiencing different cultures. He chose to do his pre university in Indonesia and was actually planning to continue his university in Indonesia but last minute he decided he wanted to do his University in Australia not UK despite my parents and I are here. Every time he had a break he always would go back to Bali as he missed Bali. I think it really was to see his girlfriend :lol:
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Jimbo said:
Where you put the money in you will get results.
My parents are not very rich, they don’t put their money into buying luxurious cars or building grand house. They live modestly and choose to put their money towards their children and their education. To me personally my parents have given me the best experience that money can’t buy.
To reiterate I did not get out of Indonesia to seek better education but to experience different cultures. My parents would be perfectly happy had I wanted to go to an Indonesian University. I have never studied in an Indonesian University so I can’t personally comment on them, but as my parents are both very well educated and take professional development seriously then the Universities must be of a fairly decent standard. I think they chose the UK to finish their doctorates because they wanted a change of scenery and I guess like myself experience living in different cultures. My parents both graduated from Gajah Mada, as Oom Roy said it is a very good university. They took their masters also in Indonesia as they believe in the Indonesian education system.
Getting back to subject of Top Notch education:
Roy said:
Personally I don’t think it’s worth it
I agree with Oom Roy. I think a lot of education, at least education on life, must come from the Parents. They are a great influence on the children in their younger years.
Roy said:
if it’s really worth it...the resulting drug problems (starting with ridillin in grammar school), mental health problems, and student violence.
My husband went to a top-notch private school. I seen most of his friends ended up with good careers and many taking over their parents businesses. One of his friends did end up with a drugs problem and wasted most of his life through this. My husband thinks this is because he knows in the end he will end up with a very good inheritance and not need to work hard in life, as the rest of us have to.
Here is a question: I was made to understand in the UK that a little bit of military training is always good and highly looked upon. I am not so sure about this, what do you think Bapak Jimbo or others?
Many thanks
Ni Luh