I was about to answer the poll, but I realise that to put on the same box foreigner woman married to balinese man and foreigner man married to balinese woman is not the same and can be very very veryyyyyyyyyy diferent experience!!!!
I think foreigner woman married to a Balinese man is a more dificult and complicated relationship than foreigner man married to a balinese woman!!! at least living on the man´s country and culture.
Have a good day!!