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  1. IndoLoveInWaiting

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    Islamic Divorce Her ex never showed up, so it only took 1 month and 2 appearances to finalize the divorce. After filing her application, the 1st Appearance was booked 2 weeks later. 1st Appearance - she was asked to bring her witnesses. She confirmed her wishes for divorce, provided the...
  2. IndoLoveInWaiting

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    For me it's 30days, then extend for another 30 days... But it sounds like most here are living there for years while not married. So I'm guessing it's a business visa?! Or is there another way?
  3. IndoLoveInWaiting

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    I do like that plan lol Interested to see what she'll say. Again, no money has been given so apart from time and hope, I'm not getting scammed - as bad... We do know each others' addresses and seen all the videos, google earth, schools, stores, mosque, family, etc... I was with her as...
  4. IndoLoveInWaiting

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    As a Canadian, how long can I stay in Bali ? How is everyone else staying so many years? As a visitor - I'm living the retired life and hoping not to work anymore ;)
  5. IndoLoveInWaiting

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    I would definitely prefer to spend the money on a lawyer rather than a vindictive ex. I am hoping that being an Islamic divorce, it may be easier on her. Kid should go to her automatically, as she can and does support him already. Divorce grounds should be easier to validate as well, given...
  6. IndoLoveInWaiting

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    I do understand your warnings and appreciate them, as I do share the same. Though I want to marry, I am in no rush for that. Rather we're more in a rush to start living together and determining if this is right for us and whether she is ok living in Canada ultimately. Maybe because we're...
  7. IndoLoveInWaiting

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    No benefits yet...We've never met in person, only speaking for months on text and video call everyday. Although our families are close now, until she's finalized - traveling and meeting in person is not an option. We do hope to marry one day, but recognize a lot more is needed before that's...
  8. IndoLoveInWaiting

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    I don't know what that means though. How much is the going rate to pay off an ex to agree to joint filing? How much is the large pile for expediting fees? Is that on top of lawyer fees? What is a regular timeline for a one sided divorce, while the other still attends? What is a regular...
  9. IndoLoveInWaiting

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    Thanks Ken! I appreciate your response, and thinking now, I do agree with you. Having a lawyer may not be necessarily needed, but when the risk is he'll fight the whole way; may scare him into folding early. And even if it is unaffordable all the way through, she'll find out soon enough if the...
  10. IndoLoveInWaiting

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    They married and moved in with his family, but then he treated her bad and his family did too. So she moved back with her family and son. She'll have witnesses to attest to this treatment. He then took off without saying anything and started working abroad. After a year and receiving no help...
  11. IndoLoveInWaiting

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    They have an 8yo boy. Why is that worse though? My understanding is the divorce could happen first, then deal with custody/support. The dad has no interest in his son. Mum is willing to do 50/50, but knows he would never consider that and just really wants nothing to do with him. Sad but...
  12. IndoLoveInWaiting

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    Would having a lawyer file for her make things go faster? With no assets and most likely easy grounds for divorce, i'm thinking she doesn't need it and will be ok seeking divorce by herself.
  13. IndoLoveInWaiting

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    Hi, I'm looking for help regarding 2 Indonesians about to start the process of (Islamic) divorce. They have been living apart for 6 years, both working abroad in different countries for most of that time. They have an 8yo together who lives with her family. He has been home in Indo for 2...
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