Hi Freogirl - yes, confirmed they have the contacts - without wanting to elaborate further, they're not your typical indonesian in-laws. On another note - I do apologise if I took jimbo's comments to be insulting and snapped - i did find them condescending ("I personally would be loathe"). But perhaps I snapped too hastily. And on that note - my apologies Jimbo & all.
Cyrus
Cyrus