Now a more related thought. I don't really buy into the notion that Steve and I could ever become locals in the timeframe that we would need to be fairly successful (again, success as defined by Steve was make enough profit to support ourselves, family, and part of the local community we're in and to create a business that can last for us to give to someone else)
Data Point 1: I was just in Akumal, Mexico. I met an American expat restaurant owner. He's got a really good grasp of what he's doing there. The community, the locals, the tourists. He's lived there for over 10 years, in a tourist community, and he is still "The American that owns the Turtle Bay Cafe".
Data Point 2: I was born in Texas, raised by Texans. My extended family is all Southern. I understand a Southern way of life. But before living in South Carolina (where I've lived now for 3 years), I spent a lot of time in Pennsylvania. To most southerners, those years in Pennsylvania have "tainted" me. I know confidently that if I lived here for another 35 years I will never be considered a true South Carolinian or Southerner.
Two points don't make a trend, right? (Sorry for the geeky analogy) But add the comments that Roy (and probably most of you guys that consider yourselves locals) are the exception, not the rule, about being accepted as a local, and there's my trend that says it's not very likely we could do this and become community citizens. You guys have been here longer, and have earned your status.
Although our strategy has always been to become locals, my gut says that a pair of geeks from South Carolina with just a year or two to make it work don't have too good a chance. We would have get in bed with someone to make any kind of project (tourism or crafts) work.