davita wroteIf wifey is Javanese, or Batak, tell her to chill when dealing with Balinese. The Bali culture still has elements of previous dynastic and patriarchial ways and they don't like others interfering....especially females. She can be strong but best to chamfer this with subtlety. In Bali....women do all the hard labor while men wear funny hats, smoke, play cock-fighting, gamble and do ceremony...I want to be re-born a Balinese man.:icon_e_biggrin:
edit: rethink...I don't smoke, gamble, nor wear a funny hat...maybe being Balinese is the wrong analogy except I used to ceremoniously present my cock as an offering.
She is from Bandung and not silly or young(couldn't find one)
When she worked in Jakarta she used to go to Bali for the weekend on numerous occasions and her sister lives in Bali
so she is very respectful and pretty smart(she married me .or perhaps she isn't smart)
