baliwho wrote
I think this is going to cause you tears my friend, going by your post it seems you have met a girl in Bali that you truly beleive that you are the 1, going by your posts you are trying to live a budget life with this that etc, my freind to have a half decent life in Bali you budget has to be : we start from scratch buy land build etc US 150,000 for 1 are which is f@@k all then costs etc etc if you decide to rent then budget for a nice place @ 40/60000 usd , then we come on too what the family needs ( yes cant ride the horse without extras ) and that brings us on to what they are asking each other in the banjar and the morning market how long can you be milked ???. Then if after these 10 + years of being proud of putting the cousins sisters nephew thru school, you decide f@@k it i had enough i am going home with nothing ( but how can that be i loved her she told me every phone call she loved me ) , been here 28 years seen most and can recognise the signs, its only a nice place to live if you have done your sums and can realy afford it ?.
While you could have potentially raised some issues for some people, my situation simply doesn't reflect what you post, to me you come off as trolling or an insecure cynical person with a need to put others down which we all know just means you're weak. Been doing this for 2 years, I know exactly what I'm getting myself in to and for the record [U][B]my partners family has never asked me for a single cent.[/B][/U][B] [B]You assume way too much. I was just excited at the prospect of cheap rent, of course the haters are going to hate, meanwhile I'll be enjoying life.[/B][/B]