Hang around but don't fall in love unless you enjoy providing for large families.
I'm sure the same applies in Indonesia!
Hang around but don't fall in love unless you enjoy providing for large families.
G'day Zimbo.
I had been visiting this vast and diverse archipelago for about 33 years when I decided to explore the option of living here.
Bali specifically.
I had some simple modest goals, none of which involved monetary enrichment in Indonesia.
I started by making 5 trips to Bali in the space of 2 years to see if I would feel comfortable living here and indeed where I might live and none of those visits lasted longer than 4 weeks.
I came twice to the mountain regions during the 'wet season' just to see if I could deal with incessant rain and where it might flood or roads become difficult or impossible to pass but alas the rains didn't come during those times.
I visited coastal areas that I thought that I may like and everywhere I went I would take time to stop and talk to people. On the side of the road, at small warungs, in villages and sometimes just stop and take in what was going on around me. No talking needed.
Apart from booking a night or two at the beginning and end of my many visits to Bali and beyond I've always left the in-between time accom' until i was here or there.
I checked out rental options from local papers and notices posted on light poles and outside supermarkets.
Then I found this forum.
It helped me enormously in making my decision to try out the move. I arrived at a pre rented place that I had paid for a 3 week stay and began searching for a more semi permanent place. I was lucky, or prudent, and found a place that suited and negotiated a deal that worked for both the landlord and me.
The landlord wanted a 12 month commitment and being a newby I didn't want to commit for that period of time but I was still after the cheaper advanced 12 month rate.
Our deal ended up being that I would pay the higher month by month rate and if I stayed the 12 months then the last month did not need payment.
Well I ended up making a decision 7 months into this arrangement and re-negotiated our rental agreement and paid for the next 12 months in advance for a better deal than the original 12 month advanced payment offered. I happily paid the higher rate for those first 7 months as it gave me the flexibility that I wanted.
I tell you this to give you some idea as to the importance of actually coming here and experiencing it for yourself. I would not have been able to negotiate/haggle to the degree that I did without first forming a relationship and building trust with my landlord and would not have been sure of where was right for me to live at that/this time.
For me it was about relationships as much as it is about knowledge gained.
As I've said, this forum has been of great value to me and I spent a lot of time on other internet sites researching. I also had the luxury of having expat friends that had lived here for decades but they had different sets of circumstances and different tunes to dance to. What was right for me could only be determined by me.
I'm happy for now and the foreseeable future. Never say never right! I only put forward my experiences in the spirit of the help that this forum gave me.
My advice, albeit 1 year in, is just don't be an a@#hole. . Nobody anywhere likes an a@#hole.
Wish you the best.
It applies here to a degree, but not with all the refinements, rehearsed plans and structured programs that 100 years contact with US Servicemen has provided. Check the expat forums there and research as you have done here. It can be very informative.I'm sure the same applies in Indonesia!
12 Months in Advance? Do they also believe in Santa Claus?
Well, I've made my decision and my place of choice is definitely NOT Bali. What a ****e hole!
Well, I've made my decision and my place of choice is definitely NOT Bali. What a ****e hole!
Why?
Just give us it staight
Because Kota Kinabalu is better and the people are more friendly - really!