It is very true. A friend, who's a recent first time visitor in Indonesia/Asia noticed that Indonesian girls he ran into or met are very flirtatious and even aggressive in his confront. He stayed in my house, but my family was surprised that one of these girls even paid him a visit one late night with taxi waiting just to see him but what's worse, was so indifferent to us because she was all distracted by he and him alone... I offered her dinner after he's had a massage in my gazebo and we all had the Balinese food in banana leaves ordered from a Balinese Restaurant nearby. She couldn't eat! She met him in Switzerland and although already married to an Indonesian man, decided to come see him. She got to know his visit on Facebook and decided to contact him. Not to mention those others he met but I don't know if they are the kampung girls who are desperate to go abroad and be a "Nyonya/Ibu" or one such as the above who was an educated one.