sasha28 wroteWhat can her family do if anything????
Here's the only thing I could think of.
Have your husband, or as many family members as you can muster, threaten to cut her off if she goes ahead without meeting with the expats that have kindly offered to meet with her.
Also, possibly print out this thread and your previous thread and force her to read them.
Other than that, if she won't listen to reason, then there's really nothing you can do. Good luck.