paulseawind wroteBefore you dive into the deep end of the pool on this stuff, try living here for a few years first. You are smart enough to notice the details.
After a few years, I will then listen to you.
You buy 10 eggs for 14K. $1.40. Someone takes 1 egg. 14c. Yes, it is nothing. But, over time, you get rorted.
Let me compare this to the Philippines. I once said I met someone there. (Not my wife). An American friend said 'Eventually you will be supporting the whole family, and more.' I never let it go that far but I did pay for her to complete her College Degree (around $3,000) and I paid for a birthday party for someone's kid (I got photos) and for a school outing to some fun parks.
My hskpr said the family home owned by the grandfather is going to be sold. She needed to move out but could not afford a rent. They pay a year in advance here.
She conscripted the hskpr from next door to talk to me about it because better English. My hskpr wanted 3 million. I said No.
I had already loaned 1.5 million to a friend who said she'd give it back in one month.
I have never seen that 1.5 back again.
I said to my hskpr you go to this woman, get the 1.5, I will add 1.5 to it, then you have 3 million.
My hskpr tried that but it became a fight between Balinese. It ended in tears.
In the end I handed over 3 million. She said she would pay me 500K every 1st of the month until re-paid.
I haven't seen any of that.
I also loaned her a cupboard/wardrobe, and a double bed so her 2 kids didn't have to sleep on the floor.
I have also given her an electric mixer. And a DenPoo oven. Plus other things.
This stuff goes on all the time. The trick is to minimise it. Next time someone wants money I can tell these 2 stories and then refuse. They will say 'but I will pay'. haha
I will say no and send them to the Bank.
My stories are small potatoes compared to others. If you still think I am 'too hard' then they are gonna love you.
Turn it up...
I'm not talking about the big things only saying 10c kg in a market for tomatoes. Same the world over even Australia.
But for 10c kg not worth talking about. Whats 10c to you
Plus yesterday you said "No way Hose"
The spelling bee has finally messed up
its "No way Jose"