harryopal wrote
I don't disagree with you but have become used to WNI family using the term without it being loaded as some kind of put down. Most entomological online sources describe the term as an Indonesian word used for foreigners although it seems there have been numerous discussions about the term being felt by non Indonesians as unacceptable. I will hereafter avoid using the term.
Your right harryopal, (entomological) man that’s a big word, It’s not in my vocabulary. As far as what I said. I know that they use that word as a term for white foreigners, also Tamu’s, which I think means guests. From my experience, neither have been used as a put down, just a description, that is why I so carelessly used it. I will avoid it in the future. I joined the forum as a way to communicate with people for advice and help in matters, I couldn’t figure out on my own. I really appreciate it when someone did help me. I don’t think it’s necessary to be a hard ass and says things in a harsh manner. It is better to lift someone up, than to put them down. That comment about the (crunchy granola eating gonads) was hilarious, and judgmental. Opinions are like assholes. Everyone has one and they all stink! Peace and love