harryopal wrote
While I understand the dismay at not being able to say "Chink... Nigger... Abbo ... " and using similar terms while pining for the good old days when the Black and White Minstrel show was top entertainment, I am sorry to report that the world is ever changing. There was a time pre-war when Adolf Hitler was seen as jolly good chap. There is even a photograph of her Majesty as a child giving a Nazi salute. Ironic to use the term "storm troopers" when referring to people objecting to the above terms and behaviour, once acceptable but now regarded as inappropriate.
It is not surprising that minority groups used to use these derogatory terms themselves as this was a survival mechanism. In the American south any "black American who didn't play the game of being the dumb "nigger" might find himself swinging from a tree. "Strange Fruit" as that bitter song describes. The "Chink" was likely to get a fistful of fives if he tried to be a smart arse. I have documented the story of a former Australian immigration officer who explained that in the good old days (1950s) as "Chink " seamen came down the ramp off a ship they would be made to drop their dacks and bend over to see that they were not hiding watches or other contraband in their anuses. After the check, the dacks pulled up, the immigration officer would give them each a little kick in the bum and send them on their way. No malice.... just friendly.
I doubt that an Immigration officer would last long if they were using that modus operandi today.
Sorry to repeat gentlemen, times have changed so go on using terms like "Nigger... Abbo... Chink" and throw in the odd Nazi salute if that is your bent but don't be surprised if it gets an unhappy response. Perhaps even get clobbered by some member of a minority group no longer prepared to accept well meant even affectionate, derogatory remarks.
Most of us manage to move with the times but by all means stay living in the past and the good old days.
This may come as a bit of a shock, but frankly I never appreciated being referred to as a "Yank". In actuality it is an error in that it refers to only Americans from New England of which I am not. Secondly, it to me is stating that "despite my friendliness you are different from me".
What the hell is the difference? Do you constantly need to make the distinction?