Momoney wrote
Thanks Markit....I can always use a good slap in the face and it was well taken! Life is random, cruel and wonderful all at the same time. Reality is harsh and sometimes an ugly thing. I think some people drink and smoke to escape it. I don’t smoke or drink but I’m willing to learn!
I picture myself living in a beautiful villa practicing yoga and tai chi by the pool with visions of unicorns and rainbows or not!
I am not running from anything, I just think Bali is beautiful, however, I could do with out the traffic.
I’m still trying to figure out how to fake medical insurance for a retirement visa.
Your picture of your perfect future is absolutely possible but that's not all you will be doing. And therein lies the rub with many dreams - they just don't encompass enough of the day to day normal tedium that we call "living". The most successful expats that I know have a "job" - I don't mean "employment" for gain, although that works too, but just something they love doing that takes some time every day and keeps them busy. If your vision of heaven is lying by the pool sipping Daiquiris you can only realistically do that for a couple of months and then it turns into real "work". If you do catch a small brown woman then the first 6 months will be wonderful (but tiring) but then she and you will need something else to do... think it through (or dream, equally valid) and go after that "reality" with passion.