Laralea wroteWe are also curious as to a live out, full time salary norm. 6 days a week @8 hours per day.
Laralea the legal standard in Indonesia is a 7 hour day if you are working them 6 days. Only for a 5 day week should you expect 8 hours per day.
Of course you'll probably get some other expats telling you "oh don't worry about that - it only applies to businesses not to individuals".
All I can say about that is how would you feel if a friend or relative of yours was being employed under those terms.
If you would like to research your responsibilities further (I'm referring here to the legal, not the moral questions), you can google working hours (waktu kerja) under Law No. 3 of 2003 concerning Labor Affairs. Good luck with all your plans!