For what this is worth, “we” (meaning Eri of course) had all three of our boys at Kasih Ibu hospital in Denpasar as well.
We also wanted a natural birth for Bima, our first, but the reality was, he was one big boy in her belly, and my wife was still less than 48 kilograms in weight. It just wasn’t going to happen without a whole lot of pain and unnecessary stress both on Eri and Bima.
VBAC, or vaginal births after a cesarean present a whole new host of issues, none of which either Eri or myself wanted to go through. So, the result was that all our three boys were delivered by C-section, but none were scheduled. In all three cases, her water broke, and she went into labor. It was neither our decision, nor the doctor’s decision to decide any of the birth dates for our boys.
We were very happy with our OB/GYN and the entire staff at Kasih Ibu. When you look at the result, who can argue with Eri’s decision?
