Hi Guys!!
I'm from the UK...i married my long-term girlfriend from Jakarta.
I can't give advice on the tourist visa because i never went down that road....what we did apply for was a marriage visa at the UK embassy the last time i was in Jakarta which will offer a 6 month Uk entry.
What i needed:
Recent phone bills
Bank account statements
Mortgage Statements
Letter from myself inviting her to the UK and to finacially support her
Letter also has to be signed by my parents
Letter from my employer in the UK
Intended date of marriage
The interview at the UK embassy was very easy and they where totally nice people.
Not really difficult at all...we have now been married for over a year and she has a good job here.
I have to say that i have been in relationships before but nothing comes close to the love that an Indonesian girl has to offer...i have never been so happy...so maybe a marriage visa might just be the thing for you?
Just my thoughts...good luck to you mate.
Mark
