Kudos to Kadek. Great points, Kadek, and well said. That's what I'd call "reality checks."
A simple example that many of you might not aware of - Students enrolment in public middle and high schools in Bali are based on merits – the more academically reputable the school, the higher the score the students must get on their final year’s exam to enter that school. So what if your kids did poorly in the exam and have missed out? There is a way of course, (you probably wouldn’t get to bribe the teacher to change their marks after the event) but the desired school maybe will accept some cash in hand for limited number of students. I know this as there were some in my old school, who gained entrance via the “back door”.
On this point, I'd like to reassure you, Kadek, that this is by no mean exclusive to Indonesia. Here, in academia in the US of A, the same thing happens. Universities have a certain percentage of their admissions (about 10% -15%) reserved for their alumni's children. Why? Because alumni contribute big money in support of their Alma Maters. So, if your father or mother is an alumnus of some college or university, and is rather generous in supporting his or her Alma Mater, even though their progeny may be a dunce, he or she will be admitted.
A most flagrant example is that of our "Commander in Chief," G.W. Bush Jr.. His father, George Bush Sr. is an alumnus from Yale U. His son was admitted at Yale, mostly on the "coattail" of his father. Bush Jr. graduated from Yale with a "C" average. From my own teaching experience in universities, I can tell you that a "C" is given for mediocre work (but not failing work). It means, "OK you showed up, you warmed the benches for a semester, here is your grade, and now go away."
In order to do graduate work in any university in the US, a minimum of a cumulative "B" average for his or her undergraduate work is required . In addition, in prestigious institutions, such as Harvard U., much more is considered in the academic and extra curricular activities background of the applicant. Practically, anyone with just a "B" average will not be admitted, unless very special circumstances exist.
Our "dear" President showed up some time ago at the prestigious Harvard Business School, with his "C" average from Yale U., with the idea of getting his MBA (Master of Business Administration). Against all odds, he was admitted. Why? I'll let you guess why, but I will venture that there must have been a very generous donation to the Harvard Foundation by Poppy, which greased the plank…
I know, I know, some of you will object to my picking on the President, because it has nothing to do with Bali. In this case, it does: it is an flagrant example that
corupsi is everywhere (and I hope I made Kadek feel better).

Keep on smiling.
Daniel
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"War is terrorism on a bigger budget."