Haha, funny that you mention Sparrows - I hate that place too.. I get dragged there all the time by my in-laws, at least once a week when in Perth. The uncle there (who's actually vietnamese) is a sweet guy but he's got a few screws loose and the wife cooks everything in advance (sometimes way too in advance) and the microwave it before serving it. The last time I was there in late april, his wife had been out of the country for the last week, and you could tell the food was prepared before she left. My wife's ex and his cousin (who's my best mate in Surabaya - we literally go out every 2nd night) and many of my wife's friends worked there as students. It's funny, all these kids had their parents credit cards with no scrutiny on spending, but yet they all grouped together and worked at these dive restaurants - they used to think it was fun.. Another place (not Indo food but chinese) where almost all the staff were indo was Prince Of China in mt. Pleasant / Applecross, on the cnr of Sleat & Canning.. It sold a few times and is now a vietnamese restaurant called Vu's, and the original owners moved to a little place further down on canning hwy, where that hill always has a speed-camera (what did we used to call them in australia, a multi-something??).. Anyway, when I first met my wife at uni, her and a bunch of her friends used to work there a few nights a week - funny memories..
Have only been married 7yrs in december - the perth years (before marriage) were the golden years for us.. Vancouver the silver and I fear now, here in surabaya, we're in the lead period

She says I've become like an asian husband and she's ok with it because she feels more like an asian wife than she did before.. I hate it, inside I long for those perth days, when life was a little simpler.. It seems as though our lives in perth were so overlapping - and here they're almost mutually exclusive with the exception of the kids

Sorry to ramble on, its been a crappy day - a crappy month and in fact a pretty crappy year. I used to think choices were the greatest thing one could have in life - but I've learnt in the last year or so, that choices can be a curse and a sentence for the type that's never satisfied.. that type being me

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